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RIP SSG Day

I struggle to find the right words today. I lost this friend to cancer this week. I served with him and was honored to do so. I can’t think of another person that I’ve ever known that cared about people more than SSG James Day. As an NCO, he not only knew my name, but the names of my kids as well. He didn’t just know their names, he knew their goals and dreams and encouraged them throughout their lives into adulthood. He then knew their kids names.

And so, it was not a surprise to me today when I looked at his Facebook page. There are literally hundreds of tributes to this man from both former students and their parents. He changed lives, befriended everyone, and was a light to all. He will be so missed. RIP SSG James Day.

Best Businesses for Veterans

Guest Blog submitted by Elizabeth Dennison

Memorial Day is an important United States holiday, recognizing the greatest of sacrifices – the laying down of one’s life to protect the lives of fellow countrymen. Our tradition of giving honor to love ones, who died while in the service of our country, by visiting their graves, holding parades and gathering with families and friends begin right after the Civil War. First called “Decoration Day,” Memorial Day became an official holiday in 1967.

This year will be no different in the respect shown to fallen heroes. As we take the time this year to pay respect to the memory of fallen servicemen and women, let’s not forget the estimated 200,000 veterans who transition back to civilian life each month. For the many of these veterans who have a desire to continue another time-honored tradition– veterans who become entrepreneurs–VetFran can help.

This program has a strong interest in helping these brave men and women realize the American Dream of owning their own business. One of those options, of course, is Five Star Painting.

Veteran Transition: Become a Business Owner

Data supports the theory that veterans in the past have had a keen interest in owning their own business. According to the Institute for Veterans and Military Families at Syracuse University, an astounding 49.7 percent of the veteran who served in World War II went on to own or operate a business, and about 40 percent of the Korean War veterans also became business owners. Many of these men and women took advantage of benefits for veterans, which included low-interest rate loans, to power the American economy, create job and generate wealth.

The best businesses for veterans coming home these wars cut across a variety of industries, including:
Construction
Retail
Insurance
Real Estate

However, this trend has seen a change. In stark contrast to WWII and Korean War veterans, the Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that of the 3.6 million men and women who served in the U.S. military since September 11, 2001, only 4.5 percent of them have started a business. History shows that importance of offering benefits for veterans to encourage business ownership. The VetFran program aims at empowering these brave individuals with support and opportunity.

Best Businesses for Veterans: Home Services Sector

With so many options for launching a business, the choices for veterans are nearly unlimited. However, included the home services industry among the sector that provide the best businesses for veterans. Depending on the source, the U.S. market for home services total $400-$800 billion a year. For decades, homes services remained the domain of wealthy homeowners, especially cleaning, lawn maintenance and landscaping. With more women in the workplace creating dual-income households, traditional home services are no longer considered only for wealthy households. Some of the best opportunities for the best businesses for veterans in this category include:


HVAC – According to the one industry report, the Heating, Ventilation, and Air Conditioning field will grow by 3.1 percent, especially as people move to moreenergy-efficient systems.
Plumbing Services – Has an annual growth rate of 4.4 percent.
Gardening & Landscaping – These services include mowing, chemical lawn care, flower-planting, pruning and more. Many franchisees offset the seasonality of the business by offering with snow removal and other exterior services.
Painting & Decorating – Offer painting services to both residential and commercial customers.
Cleaning Services – Cleaning services have become a necessity or even a convenience for many homeowners.
Handyman Services – Many homeowners are hiring out small tasks formerly relegated to the DIY list, from hanging TVs to installing fireplace mantels.

In addition, the unprecedented number of Baby Boomers deciding “age in place” has created a boom in renovations. There are countless business opportunities for home services to help them make their home age with them. Remodeling projects include making bathrooms and kitchens more accessible and user-friendly for older homeowners and people with disability and mobility challenges. Many of them may also want to update their home’s look after becoming empty nesters. Stripping sports-themed or princess-decor wallpaper and repainting can transform a child’s former bedroom into a newly reclaimed guest bedroom.

Helping Veterans Transition to Successful Business Owners

Since the end of the Gulf War in 1991, VetFran has striven to mitigate the financial barriers that keep veterans from becoming business owners. Since our inception more than 6,300 veterans have become business owners with the assistance of our program. In addition, more than 374 veteran franchise owners have received discounts awards of more than $2.1 million dollars. CLICK HERE to learn more about Dwyer Group opportunities supported by this unique program, and aimed at supporting veterans in their dreams of entrepreneurship.

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Dealing with PTSD Through Woodworking


From Guest Blogger Robert Johnson

When researching PTSD and alternative ways of helping people overcome the daily rounds of stress and pain, you might encounter woodworking as a therapy. Arts, in general, are proven to be very helpful in overcoming mental illnesses since a new course in psychology, known as an art therapy, has been developed.

PTSD is a mental health problem that some people develop after experiencing or witnessing a life-threatening event, like combat, a natural disaster, a car accident, or sexual assault. It can develop a few months after the traumatic event. If the event was prolonged and experienced over a period of time, it often becomes complex post-traumatic stress disorder or CPTSD.

When it comes to woodworking, many people who have experienced CPTSD/PTSD have witnessed a change after starting woodworking workshops and getting deeply into it. One thing that is common to woodworking and regular psychotherapy is that it can improve the self-esteem of people experiencing this illness.

In the following, you will get to know three people whose lives have been changed thanks to woodworking Their experience may encourage you to give a try on your own.

Mierop Mann is a 52-year-old businessman, who left his family and his business in order to deal with PTSD and find a new way to face a childhood trauma he had. Since he had left his business and family in order to have a personal freedom, a broken piece of furniture and lack of money made him start a new journey.
“I needed to transform a broken piece of furniture and re-purpose it without costing an arm and a leg. It was an experiment and I did not know where it would take me or if it would make a statement at all,” Mann said.
Since the transformation happened and he was able to change a piece and express his feelings, Mann continued working on it.

“Every piece I do is a new chapter and has a new introduction like a movie. It takes me on a journey, allowing the opportunity to reflect on various trauma at different stages of my life. It’s the story of my inner-child struggling with the abuse and trying to find the light at the end of a very dark tunnel. Woodworking will be the savior to a very conflicted existence”.

Laura B. Paskavitz is a single woman from Boston and her struggle with CPTSD started in her childhood. She was raised in a cult and has been dealing with mental disorders for over 25 years. She was introduced to woodworking by her artist friend and, when she was in her 20s, she started processing wood.

“I think people struggling with self-esteem issues who may not see their own value would benefit from woodworking. By learning to create and build, the hope is that the process and outcome will prove they can make, and are themselves, something to be valued”, Laura said.

Rolando M. Corral is US Army veteran who retired in 2006, Two years after he was diagnosed with PTSD, he met a Korean War veteran whose garage was full of tools. This vet taught Rolando the basics of woodworking. The most interesting part started after a dream Rolando had in which he dreamed about making a wooden American flag and saving another veteran from committing suicide.

“I want woodworking to define who I am for the rest of my life. As for that table, my kids were very pleased, and I noticed my creations put a smile on people’s faces. Woodworking helped me open up to the idea of allowing people to come into my personal space and share it with them just for a brief moment. Because woodworking helps heal the hidden wounds of war,” Rolando explained.

Don’t Let SAD Drag You Down This Winter


From Guest Blogger Kimberly Hayes

First comes the joy of Halloween, followed by Thanksgiving and the greatest celebration of all, Christmas. During that period, when most people’s spirits are up, others find themselves burdened with an unwelcome visitor: seasonal affective disorder, also known as SAD.

This mental condition leaves its victims crippled with a host of symptoms that include fatigue, insomnia, hopelessness and depression. For some, getting through the day is a constant struggle as they drag themselves out of bed, go to work and come home in a state of misery.

If you suffer from SAD, you want to find a way out. If you know someone who does, you want to help. Here’s how to do that.

Exercise

This is going to be tricky, as this is about the last thing a sufferer wants to do. The trick is to not make it too difficult; a simple walk around the neighborhood would suffice for starters, and that’s even easier with a friend tagging along or a great playlist to jam to. This may get the ball rolling, after which they can make the workouts more difficult until back in summer form.

Team Sports

“Isn’t this just more exercise?” you’re probably thinking. But no, it’s much more than that. Sure, it burns calories, but joining a basketball, volleyball or soccer team also provides a dose of friendship and camaraderie that are hard to find elsewhere. It may involve paying a fee or buying some quality equipment, but bolstering your mental health is worth the small investment.

A Healthy Diet

A dietician speaking with Everyday Health emphasizes eating foods high in fiber, like beans, oats and brown rice, along with fruits and vegetables to maintain an optimal blood sugar level and keep your energy up. The protein found in chicken and fish also aid in that endeavour.

Quality Sleep

There’s a bit of a contradiction here, as it’s often the condition itself that’s preventing sufferers from getting a good night’s rest. However, there may be a way to break the cycle, and it could be as simple as keeping the bedroom cool and dark while avoiding stimulants like caffeine and sugar late in the day. A healthy diet and exercise help as well.

A Routine

Once the sufferer has broken the cycle of tossing and turning all night and feeling groggy during the day, they should stick with that same schedule, waking up at the same time, day in and day out, even on the weekends. They’ll fall into a natural rhythm as their body tells them when it’s time to go to bed in the evening.

A Dawn Simulator

As for waking up in the morning, this device can help. It’s far from complicated. It’s just a bedside lamp that wakes the sleeper up by gradually increasing in intensity, mimicking the rising sun during the springtime. That alone dispels some of the winter doldrums.

A Light Box

The condition is brought on by the longer nights and the absence of the sun’s brightening rays earlier and earlier in the day, but they can be replaced by this device. It’s used as a form of therapy, with sufferers of SAD turning it on and facing the light whenever they feel down.

Meditation

According to one writer with Headspace, this ancient practice helped him emerge victoriously following a long struggle with depression and thoughts of suicide. Though difficult, his regular sessions of mindfulness allowed him to accept his demons, then gradually distance himself from their grasp and reach a state of contentment. It could do the same for you or your loved one.

Aromatherapy

How this lifts someone’s mood is still a bit of a mystery, but scents have been used for this purpose over the course of millenia, so it may be worth some experimentation. That involves diffusing essential oils in your home, with lemon balm, sage and lavender coming highly recommended.

These methods may take time to be effective, but with a little patience, they could also put the joy back in winter.

Life Changing Book for Vets


To merely categorize Pulitzer-Prize-winning author Eric Newhouse’s latest writing Faces of Recovery as “a book” is misleading. In actuality, it is several books in one, with varied reader-audiences.
Its subtitle, Treatments that Help PTSD, TBI and Moral Injury, covers vastly more information as well, including research, personal stories, interviews, perspectives, and compelling examples aimed at educating military veterans, their family members, veterans’ counselors, civilians, and decision-makers in our Veterans Administration.
His writing is in-depth; his reporting focuses on various past weaknesses and some current improvements slowly being made to assist veterans, but his ultimate conclusions are uplifting and positive.
There is hope for those suffering from war’s “invisible wounds” as well as those with more obvious scars. Many people who never faced combat but who suffer from PTSD and other injuries can learn methods to help them begin healing.
What readers will discover is an overview of how millions of American veterans and their families continue daily to confront issues that resulted from what they experienced first-hand in battle or witnessed as journalists/photo-journalists, or as military and medical personnel. Some never left our shores and yet have PTSD symptoms years after the original incidents occurred. Clearly, our society may be experiencing a vast and complex general condition: soul injury.
Newhouse’s numerous personal interviews combined with gut-wrenching and detailed stories are reinforced by scientific research and statistics backed by reliable medical studies and decades of veterans’ data which leave no doubt that prolonged combat increases emotional and physical injury.
A veteran himself, Newhouse reveals in a stunning description how he was suddenly, personally, and emotionally affected when, for the first time, he stood in front of the Vietnam Memorial in Washington. He had served in the Army, but since he was never deployed to Vietnam, he felt he had left the service unscathed. It was his psychological experience at “The Wall” that triggered his mission to seek help for those millions of Americans who served, both in combat and on the home-front, still suffering the effects of lost innocence.
Memories of actions resulting in killing someone during combat can also cause life-long guilt and trauma, if left to fester. Moral injury, as he terms it, can be as catastrophic as brain injuries.
Newhouse often speaks to veterans’ groups and those who counsel vets. He consults with Veterans Administration planners, interviews those veterans and civilians who, through military service or their civilian jobs, have suffered everything from “shell-shock,” a term used following WWII, to PTSD and TBI or moral injury from Vietnam or Middle East combat.
His book also includes revealing writings and interviews from many combat vets as well as one woman journalist who witnessed, solely on television, a major natural disaster with resulting deaths when her hometown of New Orleans was forever changed. Still today, although improving, she is re-living some of the images. Newhouse outlines successful techniques and approaches to make progress on what can be a slow-but-sure road to recovery.
Having taught Marines and sailors for the past two years at Camp Pendleton in a volunteer program called, “Writing for Strength,” I am honored to be mentioned in Newhouse’s latest release, a sequel to his Faces of Combat, used extensively in counseling and other educational programs to help veterans and others start to recoup their lives.
His books are essential for those working with veterans. Counselors and chaplains who attended my program consider Newhouse’s methods vital for connecting with and helping vets begin their healing process. Individual Marines and sailors who participate in Camp Pendleton’s program report finding his techniques something they need to continue to practice. Newhouse shows how writing, physical exercise, counseling and education can be combined to assist those who are injured.
He continues to dedicate his own life to making a difference in the lives of others. Faces of Recovery is the latest of his superb guidebooks for those in need.

Julie Davey, Writing for Strength Program, Camp Pendleton